sifted

I feel very very sifted currently, but the good part about that is that I am emptied of some of the things that weighed me down.
I have graduated college now, and I'm trying to figure out how I fit into the grown-up world, and I think I'll start by not quite starting.
I'm planning on living with my college friends and figureing things out from here. I was planning on getting married and following the guy in whatever he was doing, but that fell through the sifter and now I'm on my own.
SO - life after love. I know like Cher better.... I am looking at how to live my life out there in the open wisely and all, but still loads of fun. who knows, but at least I'm sifted.